France: Put bread on the tablecloth and tear it by hand
Do
- Wait until everyone is served and the host says Bon appétit
- Put your bread straight on the tablecloth beside your plate
- Tear off bite-sized pieces by hand
- Rest your wrists on the table edge with your hands in view
- Make eye contact when toasting and say Santé
- Ask for une carafe d'eau for free tap water
Don’t
- Don't put bread on your plate or cut it with a knife
- Don't bite into a whole piece of bread
- Don't plant your elbows on the table during the meal
- Don't cut lettuce with a knife; fold it into a small parcel with your fork
- Don't switch your fork to your right hand after cutting, American-style
Nothing happens if you slip up, but you will come across as unfamiliar with French table manners. Tap water is free; bottled water is charged.
Verified Oct 19, 2026Source: La Minute Française: French dining etiquette
